When this happens it's always tempting to vilify the other party;
but really this is just a defensive reaction; to mask disappointment for not experiencing the outcome that we believe we needed to experience.
In the end we just have to accept that people make choices;
and sometimes those choices will take them in separate directions.
I wish him well.
I hope he personifies everything I saw in him and more;
but I need to accept that he felt the need to drop me completely;
and that - at the end of the day - that really has nothing to do with me.
It is of no use to be sad and complain and feel justified in doing so,
believing that someone is always doing something to us.
Nobody is doing anything to anybody, much less to a warrior.”
- Carlos Castaneda; Journey to Ixtlan